Men become men when they choose to wait because they want their child to live a good life.

There are many men that say you are a man after sex but how are you manly when you caused some girl to cry when she finds out that she isn't loved the way the story books say she should be loved.
I give you this video and pray that you buy this book men and women. Everyone should expect the perfect match in loving actions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkpUPRWIeqo

I will speak more on this later but also another book that speaks greatly on love is Theology of the Body for Beginners.